A Genuine Man and a Leader
A genuine man
André
Rochais was a man from a modest background. Throughout his life
he retained the characteristics from his origins. Everywhere and
at all times, he lived his authenticity simply. He was genuine and free.
For him, these two traits could not be separated. His
authenticity guided him to be himself in all circumstances, whether or
not that pleased or displeased the person with whom he was speaking.
He lived his freedom in his words and in his actions. And because
he was a man who was fundamentally free, he could do nothing else other
than to express authentically what he was living. This attitude
was almost disconcerting in a world where it is usual to place a
sometimes extreme value on appearances.
All his other personality traits rested on this fundamental axis of a
being which was completely free and therefore he was completely
authentic in his views and in his behaviour.
A leader
As a leader he lived a fundamental kindness and a deep optimism.
In times of conflict or disappointments, he quickly found the positive
aspects in what was happening and searched for ways in which this could
take him further. He was driven by his search for the truth in
mankind and welcomed with great interest differences of opinion.
He generally carried about him an air of simplicity.
This often meant that he was often not recognised at first sight as the
founder of PRH while strolling through the garden at La Puye or when he
was working in a group. He lived honestly with an audacious
obedience to his intuitions and with a respect for the freedom of
others. As he himself said: “Being humble does not mean that I am
nothing, that I am of no value. To be humble is to accept what
is, without sidestepping the issue, without cheating with the truth
such that we discover whether it is beautiful or not.”
He was typically radical. Nobody could distract him
when he was in the middle of something, nor could they entice him to
something that did not interest him just to please someone.
However, where people were concerned, their worries, their growth, he
was then always interested and had a great capacity for listening.
To those he guided in either professional or personal development he
never proposed half-measures. He did not know half-measures, only
the essentials required in order to progress attracted him.
He was an educator and a person who loved life. In his
work, when listening or responding, he communicated what he had lived
and what he had experienced. You did not get the feeling that he
was being led by a doctrine to be addressed or a lesson to be given.
He was a man who knew how to govern.
He had an exceptional lucidity. He knew how to energise and how
to lead people. He was always firm with regard to the core
aspects but maintained flexibility with regard to their
implementation. He had a real ability to adapt.
He never stopped creating in order to enable well-adjusted progress.
He inspired trust. When he gave a responsibility to someone, he
trusted that person with it. This attitude allowed each person to
understand well their importance and to fully take their place.
He also had a great capacity for open-mindedness and for
implementation. He organised, created workshops, supervised
administration, etc. He was competent in many areas.
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